God wants us to get this down in our spirit, therefore it was not meant for us to become entangled with no one outside the union of marriage. If one can imagine an umbilical cord, [navel to navel] connected to every individual you've had a relationship with outside of what God ordained for us, you can imagine the tangle some lives may be in. Think about it. . . You form a soulical tie to that individual. *When a person who is bonded to another is governed by impure motives or the desires for selfish gain, the soul tie between them can enable the selfish one to manipulate and abuse the other. A person can actually control another through soul ties because now the mind, will and emotions are open to one another. That alone can cause emotional or mental bondage*.

When we marry we form a tie with our mate. Have you ever heard the expressions "I got you under my skin" .. "you have been on my mind all day and I don't know why?" .. "yes he/she abuses me, but I can't leave them?" Your last relationship may have ended long ago, yet you still think of that person and perhaps still desire them. The woman who's husband beats her, let's say for instance he goes to work, she is free to leave and seek help but cannot move, these are just to a few types of many. During a physical encounter your spirit is open, you are susceptible to thoughts, actions and words of not only yourself...but those of another.
Now envision if that same individual slept with several people...this puts a totally different slant on "being in the mix." A transference of spirits W.I.L.L. occur. Isn't it odd that AIDS is clearly understood and we already know that to sleep with a person is like sleeping with everyone they have slept with, yet we have never actually viewed a transference of disease happening visually? So in token, one cannot tell if they have been infected with AIDS immediately. When there has been the transference of spirits unless you are able to discern spirits the same occurs in the spiritual realm with soul ties, get my drift? Not all things are seen with the naked eye. Get that deep into your spirit!!!
We need to learn how things work in the realm of the spirit to totally understand. Ask God to open your spiritual eyes to see, along with wisdom and discernment to thoroughly comprehend what I am saying here. This topic is vast! I am sure even now you can think of ways this soulical mixing can be dangerous to oneself. I honestly did not plan to go too deep into this, for I wanted to peak your curiosity enough to promote you to research what I am ministering now. Realize that spirits seek one another out. Here's a prime example of this:
Let's say two people enter into a nightclub, unaware of the other. Mr. Gotta Have Her wants to ensnare a "new" female for sex. {Don't give me that "he's a man 1st" bologna either...that mode of thinking will land you in hell}The unsuspecting female Ms. Lonely, has no idea this person even exists who'll waltz into her world and totally turn it upside-down. However the spirits "assigned" to them know one another all too well. Remember, we do not see this with our own natural eyes. From the doorway, Mr. Gotta Have Her may spot her, or feel led to approach Ms. Lonely at some point. Trust me, those demons who bought the two together are probably pals in hell. Their mission of killing, stealing and destroying is accomplished ! Ms. Lonely now finds herself in a situation outside the covenant of marriage. When all is said and done, she may find herself in a situation she never planned, saying things she never thought, and her latter mental state will be worse than her former.. . not to mention the strong possibility of disease. This is more than fluid mixing I am speaking of here, for any and everything about the two can become interchangeable!!!!